How To Get A Girl To Confess She Likes You (Hint: Don’t Ask Her)
If you’re wondering how to get a girl to confess she likes you (or how to ask a girl if she likes you), there’s something you must be aware of.
Whether you plan to do this over text, over the phone, or in person…there’s something you need to understand first.
There’s a trap a lot of guys fall into, which ruin their chances with the girl they want.
If you fall into this trap, chances are that this woman will NEVER confess her feelings for you.
Because she won’t have any left.
Without further ado, let’s get right to the heart of the matter.
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How to get a girl to confess she likes you: ask yourself the right question
As you may have noticed, between what a woman says and what she does, there is sometimes (and even often) a chasm.
She’ll tell you, for instance, that you’re a great guy, that you’re “perfect” in every way… but will refuse to start a relationship with you.
Related: She Kissed Me But Doesn’t Want A Relationship
And instead sleep (or even start a relationship) with this guy that she considers to be an “asshole”… This guy she may even hate.
How, then, can you give credit to what a woman will tell you about her feelings for you?
How do you know she’s sincere with you?
The thing is, she may tell you that she loves you, that she cares about you… but at the same time pull away from you and go hook up with another.
And conversely, she may very well tell you that she hates you, and at the same time do everything to sleep with you.
A woman who doesn’t reveal her feelings shouldn’t worry you more than that.
Related: Good Questions To Ask A Girl To Get To Know Her
All this to say:
Don’t expect her to reveal her feelings for you.
Not only because she won’t necessarily know how she feels about you…
But also because her way of communicating is not as direct as yours:
Women communicate in a much more subtle way than men do.
They communicate in a much less direct way, through innuendo or clues that they let slip (deliberately or not) in their body language or in the way they talk.
There are several reasons for this:
First, they seek to preserve their reputation, avoiding being seen as easy girls (or as sluts).
Then, because they’re more sensitive than men, and therefore don’t need to be as straightforward as them to understand each other.
This last point directly influences the way they communicate.
Don’t expect a woman to be straightforward with you.
Related: 15 Signs She Loves You But Is Hiding It
But that’s not all…
There’s another thing you must understand that’s even more crucial…:
If you ask a woman about her feelings for you, there’s a good chance she’ll see you as a needy (or even desperate) guy.
Questioning a woman about her feelings for you can easily make you look like a guy who needs reassurance.
Like a desperate guy who needs the girl’s validation before he tries anything with her.
Which is anything but attractive.
And which is likely to turn her off if she actually had feelings for you.
So don’t try to get her to confess her feelings for you.
Don’t even ask her is she likes you.
Related: Should You Tell A Girl You Like Her?
If you want to gauge a woman’s feelings for you, don’t ask her.
Watch her.
Don’t listen to what she says, look at what she does.
Pay attention to her actions.
Actions don’t lie. Words…you never know.
So focus on the real signs of interest she’s sending you.
Focus on her actions that prove she has feelings for you.
Read: How To Tell If She’s Into You
How to get a girl to admit that she likes you over text
To figure out the feelings of woman over text, same rule as above:
Look at what she does, not at what she writes.
Does she contact you spontaneously?
If so, it’s a sign that she’s actively seeking your contact, and therefore that she’s interested.
Does she respond quickly to your messages, with a lot of emotion and enthusiasm?
If so, it’s a sign that she’s emotionally invested in your conversation, and therefore that she somehow likes you.
Does she actively engage in the conversation by asking you questions?
If so, it’s a sign that she wants to move things forward with you, and therefore that she’s attracted.
If you want to learn more about the signs that a girl likes you over text, I recommend you check out this extensive post.
[MUST-READ] Be DOMINANT with Women: Know How to MASTER Them (In Everyday Life) to Make Them Fantasize About You
If you enjoyed this article (and even if you didn’t), you’ll love this other extensive post I recently published:
There’s something you need to understand:
Women want to be submissive.
They fantasize about sexual submission.
And when they meet a dominant man who has the potential to satisfy their submission fantasies, it makes them desire him intensely.
Sounds shocking or surprising to you?
Keep reading…
Today, you’re going to learn how to master women in a way that will turn them on.
You’re going to learn how to dominate women to make them wet with desire.
And NOT just in bed:
You’re going to implement this in other contexts and environments, be it after an approach, on a date, at a party, and more.
You’re going to implement this in your everyday life with the women you like so that they see you as a powerful dominant male who is able to satisfy their desires and take them to seventh heaven.
These actions you’re going to implement daily with the girls you want will lead them to see you as THE man to date.
You’ll stand out.
Women will see you as a potential lover and as a good lay (and that’s a bit of an understatement).
However, there are things you need to understand first.
You’ve got to be ready to try certain things that are a bit bold (more or less depending on the girl and the situation).
It's all there:
Stay solid,
Jack
