How To Make Her Commit To You (Counter-intuitive ⚠️)
If you’re wondering how to make a woman commit to you, there’s one fatal mistake you should avoid at all costs…
…or you’ll never get to settle down with her.
And that’s exactly what we’re going to see here.
The strategy you must adopt to convince a woman to commit to you is counterintuitive…
But it’s definitely the best way to reassure her about you…and make her feel an urge to start a serious relationship with you.
Thanks to a psychological defense mechanism that you’ll turn against her (it’s totally ethical as long as you don’t use it to hurt her).
Let’s dive in.
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How to make her commit: STOP
So that this woman wants to commit to you, the first thing you need to do is…
…stop trying to convince her to commit to you.
Stop pressuring her (even subtly).
Because it’s precisely this pressure you put on her that creates a resistance in her.
She feels forced, and naturally wants to resist.
Related: 13 Signs She Doesn’t Want To Date You
Even worse:
This eagerness in you is likely to make her see you as a desperate guy.
Which is anything but attractive (and will make her want to commit even less).
If you want her to desire a relationship with you, don’t try to push her to commit.
She shouldn’t feel that you’re trying to push her into a relationship with you.
Don’t try to force her.
This will only create resistance and make it even harder for you to get her to commit.
The counter-intuitive strategy to convince a woman to commit to you
To get a girl to willingly commit to you, you’re going to be more subtle…
To the point where she’ll be the one who’ll convince herself that she must commit to you.
In fact, she won’t even have to, since she’ll be convinced from the moment you use this strategy on her.
Here’s the key:
You’re going to make her think that you don’t particularly want her to commit.
Even better:
You’re going to make sure that she tells herself that YOU don’t really want to commit.
What will happen then is that she’ll feel that you’re slipping away from her.
And from that moment, she’ll stop taking you for granted.
She’ll perceive this apparent lack of desire for a serious relationship as a lack of interest on your end.
Even if you already sleep with her regularly.
Related: She Sleeps With Me But Doesn’t Want A Relationship
She’s not going to put up with the idea that you might not want to go further with her.
And she’ll start questioning herself about her relationship with you:
“Why doesn’t he want more with me?”
“Have I done something wrong?”
“Am I not good enough for him?”
“Has he met another woman?”
A whole bunch of questions that will soon turn into an obsession.
Without her even realizing it.
Read: How To Attract A Woman Who Is Not Interested
At the same time, you’re going to make sure you (subtly) eradicate the fears and doubts she might have.
You’re going to do what’s needed to eradicate the fears and doubts she might have about a possible relationship with you.
This isn’t always necessary, but it can be depending on the situation and the woman you want to get to commit.
For instance, for a woman who has been hurt by a recent breakup and is afraid to start a serious relationship with another man.
Or a woman who doesn’t think it’s a good idea to settle down with you because of the way you behaved with her lately.
To break through these obstacles, you need to make the necessary adjustments in your attitude and/or lifestyle so that this woman can see you as a serious and reliable love partner.
BUT (and this is the subtlety)… :
Without making her think that you’re doing all this for her.
This point is crucial.
You don’t want her to think that you’re making all these changes in the hope that she’ll commit to you.
If you do, not only she may see it as manipulation (and thus she will resist again, and you’ll be back to square one)…
But she may also see it as a desperate attempt on your part… Which will make you look like a desperate guy, who is all over her and would do anything to get her.
As a result of that, she might distance herself from you, as in her eyes you’ll no longer represent any challenge (you’ll have become boring and predictable).
If you want this woman to desire a serious relationship with you, the key is to speak to her heart…while making sure you put her mind at ease.
In other words, talk to her emotions while making sure you blow away any objections she might have to a relationship with you.
All this without ever getting her to think that you’re making all this effort for her.
Everything must seem natural.
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There’s something you need to understand:
Women want to be submissive.
They fantasize about sexual submission.
And when they meet a dominant man who has the potential to satisfy their submission fantasies, it makes them desire him intensely.
Sounds shocking or surprising to you?
Keep reading…
Today, you’re going to learn how to master women in a way that will turn them on.
You’re going to learn how to dominate women to make them wet with desire.
And NOT just in bed:
You’re going to implement this in other contexts and environments, be it after an approach, on a date, at a party, and more.
You’re going to implement this in your everyday life with the women you like so that they see you as a powerful dominant male who is able to satisfy their desires and take them to seventh heaven.
These actions you’re going to implement daily with the girls you want will lead them to see you as THE man to date.
You’ll stand out.
Women will see you as a potential lover and as a good lay (and that’s a bit of an understatement).
However, there are things you need to understand first.
You’ve got to be ready to try certain things that are a bit bold (more or less depending on the girl and the situation).
It's all there:
Stay solid,
Jack
