8 (Reliable) Signs She Will Never Come Back With You
How to know if a breakup is permanent?
What are the signs your ex will never come back?
What are the signs you will never get back together?
If the relationship with your girlfriend (or wife) has just ended and you still love her, it’s natural to wonder whether or not this breakup is permanent.
Is there a chance that my ex will come back? Or is she gone forever?
That’s what we’re going see in this article…with 8 (reliable) signs that a woman is unlikely to return.
Let’s get started.
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8 Signs Your Ex Will Never Come Back
Let’s go over the signs that your ex girlfriend is not likely to return.
1. She’s now in a relationship with a man she’s in love with
Your ex girlfriend is in a relationship with a guy she’s in love with.
She’s moved on with a man she’s attached to.
In this case, it’ll be hard to get her back.
She’s attached to this guy, and she may even already have commitments with him (mortgage, children, …) that makes even less likely that she’d break up with him.
2. She’s no longer attracted to you
Her sexual attraction to you has faded.
Completely.
She seems to have no desire for you anymore.
Already for a long time.
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It’s been a while since she hasn’t looked at you like she used to when she had feelings for you.
Her smile is no longer the smile of a charmed woman, but rather a mechanical smile, of an indifferent woman.
She doesn’t pay as much attention to you as she used to.
You’ve taken a back seat.
This may be due to mistakes and blunders you’ve made. Or to too much familiarity you’ve allowed to creep into your relationship.
Which brings us to sign number 3…
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3. She sees you as just a friend
She says that she sees you as just a good friend, and not as a sexual and love partner.
She may even view you as a “great” or “perfect” guy, but not as a lover or boyfriend.
To her, you may even be “like a brother”.
This sign is a consequence of the previous point: significant decrease in sexual attraction, which results in between you remaining only emotional attachment, like two friends. Which is not enough for a solid romantic relationship between a man and a woman.
4. She is adamant about her decision
When she broke up with you, you didn’t sense any hesitation in her.
She was dry, cold, and closed to any discussion.
You felt that there was no ambiguity on her part.
Not like an ex who is still in love and who is not sure of her decision to break up, and who therefore doubts, hesitates, and starts to cry when you question her about her decision.
If your ex is adamant in her decision to break up, it means she’s confident in her move, and therefore unlikely to return (at least for now).
This sounds like a well thought out decision, not a spur-of-the-moment breakup.
5. She has lost interest in you
Your ex girlfriend has lost interest in you.
She doesn’t text you anymore, she only replies briefly (and belatedly) when you message her, she stopped being curious about you, she doesn’t flirt nor play with you anymore , she doesn’t ask your friends about you…
In short, she (really) doesn’t care about you anymore.
It’s as if you no longer exist for her.
She has definitely moved on.
6. She has a deep hatred for you
Your ex has a repulsive hatred towards you.
A deep hatred, much stronger than any loving feelings she may still have for you.
This hatred may be due to serious mistakes on your part, repeated arguments, or simply an incompatibility that caused your relationship to rot over time.
She hates you deeply for who you are or what you’ve done to her, and wants to put as much distance as possible between you and her.
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7. She has an overinflated ego
Her ego is stronger than any feelings she might have for you.
You have hurt her ego, and she has not forgiven you for it.
You may have cheated on her, insulted her, humiliated her…
So she ended the relationship because she felt that you crossed the line.
Even though she regrets and deep down wants to come back, her pride prevents her from taking that step.
8. She never loved you
Your ex may never have loved you.
Maybe she was just with you for the sex, without feeling any particular attachment to you.
Maybe she was still in love with her ex boyfriend, whom she was trying to forget with a booty call or a rebound guy (you).
Or maybe she just wanted to have fun, no strings attached.
In short, she was never attracted to you, let alone in love.
In this case, she has no reason to come back (except maybe to use you again, but is that really what you want?).
See also: 9 Signs That Your Girlfriend Isn’t Sexually Attracted To You
So much for the 8 signs that your ex isn’t coming back.
If you spot one or more of these signs, there’s little chance your ex will come back.
At least as things stand right now.
Which brings us to the fateful question…:
Is she really gone forever?
Your relationship with this woman has just ended…
You’ve spotted one or more of the signs above…
So you may have come to the conclusion that this woman is lost forever.
The good thing about this is that, by ceasing to harbor hopes of winning her back, you’ll stop clinging to that woman… and therefore you’ll be able to move on sooner…
Thus freeing you from her hold on you, and…increasing your chances of winning her back (more on that below).
But there’s one thing you need to understand here…
It’s that the signs above only tell you that this woman is not coming back in the near future, as things stand.
These signs are not enough to state with certainty that a breakup is final.
Because you can very well reshape the image that your ex made of you.
And the context which made getting your ex back difficult can also change.
Your ex may for instance break up with her new boyfriend.
She may also realize several weeks after breaking up with you that she was more attached to you than she thought.
She may also feel an urge to win you back when she sees that other women are hitting on you.
A woman’s desire for a man is not set in stone and can change very quickly.
And as for the wounds that you might have inflicted on her (in the general sense, not necessarily in the physical sense of the term) which, out of pride, would prevent her from getting back together with you, they can heal with time.
Even more quickly if she perceives that you have changed and evolved in the right direction.
The above signs mostly indicate that your ex will not be back in the near future, as things stand.
But what about later?
Nothing is less certain.
If you considered this woman as the woman of your life, the situation might not be as desperate as it looks right now.
If wining her back now seems difficult (or impossible), wait and see how things develop.
In a few weeks, the situation could be very different.
That being said, don’t get hung up on that woman either, even if you consider her the love of your life.
The more you hold on to her, the harder it’ll be to get her back.
Detach yourself from her as much as possible.
See also: How To Get Your Wife Back
Frequently asked questions
Let’s now answer some questions my readers often ask on this topic.
➡️ What to do if my ex isn’t coming back?
When a woman isn’t coming back, the mistake here would be to start chasing her.
If your ex doesn’t show any signs of interest (such as reaching out, asking about you and your love life…), she’s probably not interested enough to want to come back.
She may not have a desire for you anymore, she may have felt smothered by your presence and attention lately…
Therefore, if you come back to her now, you’ll just make her want to run away even more.
If you want to get her back, it’s better to do the opposite: don’t try to get her back, just ignore her.
Rebuild your life by working on your projects and meeting other women.
Noticing that you have moved on, your ex will feel that she may have lost you for good.
At this point, she’ll be likely to experience some fear of loss, which in turn will intensify the possible emotional lack due to your absence.
And if she sees you (or suspects that you are) in the company of other women, you’ll appear much more desirable to her (when a woman sees that other women want you, it automatically makes her attracted to you).
That’s how an ex girlfriend you thought was lost forever can end up coming back to you.
Sometimes quickly (it can be a matter of days after the breakup), sometimes less (weeks or months).
But as you’ve understand, for this to happen you shouldn’t chase her. Because if you start chasing her, she won’t feel any urge to win you back.
So when an ex doesn’t come back after leaving you, don’t fall into the trap of hanging on to her.
If you’re currently reading this post, it’s probably because you’re still too attached to this girl. And therefore haven’t moved on yet.
So stop clinging.
Tell yourself it’s over.
And get on with your life.
The best thing to do is to move on.
Paradoxically, this is what will allow you (if you still want to) to start a new relationship with her in the future.
➡️ What are the signs my ex will never talk to me again?
You can’t tell for sure whether an ex will never talk to you again.
There are just signs that indicate that she’s not coming in the near future.
That said, the more of these signs you spot, the higher the probability that she won’t talk to you ever again.
Here they are:
- She is now in a relationship with a man she’s in love with
- She’s no longer attracted to you
- She sees you as just a friend
- She’s adamant about her decision
- She has lost interest in you
- She has a deep hatred for you
- She has an overinflated ego
- She never loved you
➡️ What are the signs she has not moved on?
There are different signs that indicate a woman is regretting a breakup.
The most telling of these signs is her apparent psychological well-being:
Does she seem happy? Does she look radiant?
Or does she look unhappy, on the verge of depression?
If she’s unhappy, it’s probably because of the breakup.
Especially if this depression arises after seeing you in the presence of other women (whether in real life or in photos posted on social media), or after learning that you had a new girlfriend.
Another sign that your ex probably regrets the breakup is the attention she gives you.
Does she text you spontaneously?
Is she trying to flirt with you again?
Is she curious about your love life?
If so, this could be a sign that she misses you and would like to win you back.
She’s trying to create a connection with you, or subtly indicate that she’s ready for a new relationship with you.
There are also more obvious signs, such as explicit statements: for instance, she tells you that she misses you, that she was happy with you, that since the breakup she’s not doing too well, and so on.
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