11 Signs She Likes You Over Text (the third one is subtle)
How to tell if a girl likes you over text?
What are the signs she likes you over text and may even be developing feelings for you?
It could be a girl you’ve just met, a friend of yours, or a woman with whom you’ve already started a relationship…
You like her and would like to know if it’s mutual.
Now.
Well… you can easily gauge her interest in you by observing the way she texts you, as well as her text messages in themselves.
And that’s precisely what we’re going to see in this article…
With 11 signs a girl likes you over text (and is potentially deeply in love with you).
Let’s dive in.
Table of Contents
- 1 – She responds quickly
- 2 – She takes the initiative to write to you
- 3 – She sends you another message after you don’t reply
- 4 – She asks you questions
- 5 – She sends you long messages
- 6 – She restarts the conversation
- 7 – She’s playful
- 8 – She sends you several messages in a row
- 9 – She uses emoji
- 10 – She compliments you
- 11 – She asks you out on a date
- How to know if she likes you through text? One last thing you need to understand:
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1 – She responds quickly
A girl who likes you will often respond more quickly than a girl who doesn’t care about you.
Women who are not interested tend to take a long time to respond, if at all.
This is either because they are putting you second (or your message is drowned in the mass of messages she regularly receives from guys who are into her), or to subtly indicate you that she’s not interested, by putting distance between you and her.
See also: Signs That A Girl Doesn’t Like You Over Text
A woman who likes you, on the other hand, will be more reactive.
Not only will she respond to you, but she’ll also respond quickly.
Maybe even immediately.
That being said, it’s not because a woman answers you quickly that she’s necessarily attracted.
Indeed, it could be a woman who has the habit of being glued to her phone and respond to her text messages mechanically.
Therefore, this sign alone is not enough to say that a girl likes you.
You have to spot it in combination with other signs listed in this post.
2 – She takes the initiative to write to you
This is a particularly revealing sign of interest.
It indicates that the girl in question takes an interest in you. And that she invests herself in the conversation.
A woman who answers your messages is one thing: she may just want to be polite. But a woman who writes to you all by herself, whether to make a comment or to ask a question, is much more than that. She’s actively engaging in the conversation.
A girl who is not interested wouldn’t do that.
At best, she would just answer your texts (sometimes several days late).
And in many cases, she’d simply ignore you.
An interested woman may write to you spontaneously to get in touch with you.
This is a telling sign of interest.
Of course, it could be a girl friend who just wants to hear from you, but it could also be a girl who secretly loves you and would like to take things to the next level with you.
3 – She sends you another message after you don’t reply
She sends you a message…
You are slow to answer…
She then sends you an additional message to supplement her last message (for instance to add more details, or to ask you a question related to this first message).
For instance:
– You: “Are you a dog person or a cat person?”
– Her: “Dog.”
Then, a few hours later, seeing that you don’t answer:
– Her: “What about you?”
Another example:
– You: “Don’t tell me that this is part of your hobbies :p”
– Her: “Haha no don’t worry xD”
Then, a few minutes later, seeing that you don’t answer :
– Her: “I have many more interesting activities”
A woman who makes the effort to supplement a message she sent you a while ago is a woman who is taking some initiatives with you.
It means that she actively engages in the conversation.
And thus that she expects (or wants) something to happen with you.
It also means that she cares about what you think of her, since she might make this additional effort in order to add some details to her first message, which maybe wasn’t playing in her favor.
She’s bothering just for you.
4 – She asks you questions
A woman who asks you questions is a woman who is interested in you.
This is a big sign of interest.
Especially when she asks you questions about yourself.
Because it shows that she’s trying to get to know you, or at least to fill gaps in the conversation (which shows that she doesn’t want you to see her as a boring girl, and thus that you don’t leave her indifferent).
See also: Things To Ask A Girl
On the other hand, a girl who doesn’t like you won’t bother asking you questions (or very few). And will simply answer yours, often hours (or days) late.
That said, just because a woman doesn’t ask you questions doesn’t mean she’s not interested: she could be a shy girl, or a woman who is hiding her feelings for you.
5 – She sends you long messages
If she sends you long messages, it means that she’s invested in the conversation.
She attaches great importance to the outcome of this interaction.
If she sends you long text messages, she definitely cares about you.
So if she writes large blocks of text, it’s a good sign.
On the other hand, if her messages are short, it’s a rather negative sign.
It shows a lack of investment on her part.
That being said, keep in mind that some women are naturally not very talkative (whether by message or in real life) and may send you short messages despite being attracted to you.
6 – She restarts the conversation
This sign is quite similar to signs 2 and 3.
A woman who restarts the conversation by herself after a pause in the exchange or after a lack of engagement from you is a woman who is expecting something from her conversation with you.
You probably don’t leave her indifferent.
She makes the effort to fix this dry text conversation on her own because she wants to move things forward with you.
This is a particularly telling sign that a woman loves you or is sexually attracted to you.
And that goes for face-to-face conversations as well (as I show you here).
7 – She’s playful
A girl who acts blasé is in most cases a girl who has a clear lack of interest in you (although there are exceptions).
A woman who acts playful with you, on the other hand, is a woman who is fully invested in the interaction.
But it is also and above all a woman who seeks to speed things up.
She wants to get you to react, she wants to turn you on.
Whether it is by teasing you, or by asking provocative questions.
This is usually a very good sign.
Related: How To Turn A Girl On Over Text
8 – She sends you several messages in a row
This isn’t the most telling sign of interest of this list, but it may indicate some interest on her part.
As we’ve seen, a woman who is not interested will tend to only send you short messages. Sometimes one-word texts.
When she answers to you, she’ll just send you a brief, lazy answer, in one message.
On the other hand, a woman who sends you several messages in a row is a woman with a higher level of interest.
It’s a bit as if she sent you one relatively long message (see sign 5).
Especially if these messages are spaced apart in time (for instance if she sends you her second and third texts after you don’t answer her first).
That being said, just because a woman responds to you with several messages in a row doesn’t mean she’s necessarily interested.
She may be used to respond “in bursts” in all her text conversations, sending several successive short, spontaneous messages.
9 – She uses emoji
A woman who makes the effort to add emoji in her texts is a woman who wants to convey emotions.
If a girl sends you smiley faces (like for instance “🙂” or “😉” or “:p“…), it means that she’s eager to convey positive emotions.
It’s a bit like a girl you’d meet in real life and give you a big smile.
You could clearly see it as an indicator of interest.
With smiley faces, it’s the same.
She’s looking to be radiant, welcoming…to make a good impression on you.
It’s also a direct expression of her positive mental state: she feels good about texting you.
This is the opposite of the completely bored, blasé girl who just sends you dry answers without any emotion attached to them.
10 – She compliments you
In most cases, a girl who compliments you is a girl who wants to show her interest in you.
It can be a compliment on your personality, a compliment on one of your clothes, a compliment on your physique…
Be careful though, just because a woman compliments you doesn’t mean she’s necessarily in love with you (or sexually attracted to you).
You must distinguish the compliment of the good friend (who has friendzoned you) from the compliment of the girl who’s trying to flirt with you.
Generally speaking, the more spontaneous and “out of nowhere” her compliment is, the better.
On the other hand, if she compliments you after you gave her a compliment, she may just want to be polite.
11 – She asks you out on a date
If this girl is trying to meet you physically, it’s a good sign she wants to take things to the next level with you.
She’s attracted to you, maybe even deeply in love with you.
She wants to make things happen with you (kiss you, sleep with you, start a serious relationship with you…).
See also: Signs She Wants A Serious Relationship With You
She may for instance invite you to her place (using a lame excuse, such as helping her with her math homework, or watching a movie).
Or invite you for lunch.
Or suggest that you go for a walk together after work or class.
And so on.
She wants to see you physically to seal the deal.
How to know if she likes you through text? One last thing you need to understand:
Well…
We’ve just gone over 11 signs of interest that you can spot in your text conversations with a girl you like.
Let’s do a quick recap those signs… :
- She responds quickly
- She takes the initiative to write to you
- She sends you another message after you don’t reply
- She asks you questions
- She sends you long messages
- She restarts the conversation
- She’s playful
- She sends you several messages in a row
- She uses emoji
- She compliments you
- She asks you out on a date
While some of these signs alone are enough to prove a woman’s interest in you, it’s the combination of several of these signs that will indicate that a woman has some reals feelings for you.
The more of these signs you spot, the more likely it is that the girl in question is in love with you (or at least wants to sleep with you).
See also: 17 Female Body Language Love Signals
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Stay solid,
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