How To Make A Girl Jealous (INSTANTLY): 8 Subtle Ways
If you wonder how to make a girl jealous, I’ve good news for you:
Making a woman jealous is not very complicated.
Whether this woman is your girlfriend, your wife, a friend of yours, or a girl you’ve just met.
And that’s precisely what we’re going to see in this article…
…with 8 subtle things you can do to make a girl jealous, without her realizing what’s going on (she won’t know that you used a psychological trick on her).
Once you use one of these techniques, the girl quickly gets jealous…and starts wanting you.
Table of Contents
- How to make a woman jealous – disclaimer
- 1) Speaking well of another girl
- 2) Telling her about your pastimes with other girls
- 3) Making sure she sees you chatting with another girl
- 4) Texting another girl in front of her
- 5) Making sure she catches you looking at other women
- 6) Complimenting one of her friends in front of her
- 7) Asking her for a gift advice (a gift you plan to make to another girl)
- 8) Having lunch with another girl
- Quick recap
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How to make a woman jealous – disclaimer
An important note before we begin:
Be sure to balance the use of these techniques according to the girl.
And be careful not to overdo it.
Here, it’s all about getting that girl to see you as a guy women desires, with options.
The key is to get the girl you want to see you as the prize. To see you as a challenge she’s going to have to fight for.
Not to make her lose interest in you because she’ll tell herself that you don’t care about her or that you’re just an asshole.
You just need to titillate this girl, not traumatize her.
Don’t use these techniques to generate unhealthy jealousy.
Again, make sure you balance the use of these techniques according to the girl and her propensity to be jealous.
If she’s fragile, go easy on her.
If she gets easily jealous, go easy as well.
And if you’re in a relationship with her, use them in small doses.
This preliminary remark being made, let’s get to the heart of the subject…with the first thing you can do to make a girl jealous:
1) Speaking well of another girl
For instance a new colleague or a new intern at work. Your new lab partner in college. A friend of a friend you just met. A friend you haven’t seen in a while. And so on.
Telling the girl you want to make jealous about this other girl can be enough to do the job.
But for this to work, you’re going to talk about her in a nice way.
You’re going to tell her how classy, or smart, or interesting…she is.
Again, don’t overdo it, just one positive adjective is enough. If you praise the other girl too much, it’d look forced, like you’re deliberately trying to make your girl jealous (which you don’t want, at least it’s what she should think).
A few words of praise here and there are more than enough.
When the woman you want to make jealous hears you talking about that other girl in detail, she’ll quickly consider her as a potential female rival.
And she’ll start feeling (slightly) insecure.
She’ll stop taking you for granted (if it was the case) and will start to realize that you may very well be interested in other girls than hers.
She’ll feel that she might be losing you.
This technique is quite subtle, because it simply consists in speaking well of another girl, without doing too much. But you can be sure they’ll have an effect on the girl.
Let’s move on to the second technique…
2) Telling her about your pastimes with other girls
This technique is similar to the first one, because it also consists in talking about another girl.
Except that here, you’re not going to talk about the girl herself. You’re going to talk about your pastimes with this girl.
For instance, you’ll tell her that last weekend you went for a walk with this girl, or that you went for a drink with her, or that you went to the movie theater with her, or that you went shopping together…
It could be anything.
Just be subtle and don’t make the girl the main focus of the conversation. The main focus should be the activity you did with her.
This will be enough for the woman you want to make jealous to start imagining you having a good time with this other girl. That you might like other another woman more than her. That she might not be the only one in your eyes. And so on.
Try it, you won’t be disappointed.
Let’s move on to the third technique…
3) Making sure she sees you chatting with another girl
A very simple (and effective) way to make a woman feel that women like you and that you have options is to let her see it.
And to do this, you can simply make sure that she sees you talking to another girl. The hotter, the better, because she’ll be more likely to consider her as a rivale (she doesn’t have to be a perfect 10, it’ll still work if she’s average).
If you want to make a girl friend from your college or university jealous, make sure she sees you chatting with other women at break time or after class.
For instance, get her to see you laughing or giggling with other women at the coffee machine between classes.
See also: Dating Your Best Friend
If you want to make a co-worker jealous, make sure she sees you talking to another co-worker or intern.
You can also use this trick at a party.
You make sure the girl you want to make jealous sees you messing around with another woman.
This will stimulate the competition.
Let’s move on to the fourth technique…
4) Texting another girl in front of her
This technique is similar to the previous one in that you’re going to make sure your girl catches you communicating with other women.
Except that here, you’re not going to be caught talking face to face to another woman. You’ll be caught exchanging text messages with another girl.
This trick is very powerful to titillate her and make her wonder.
Because here, she may very well have no information on this girl you’re texting.
And that could drive her crazy (use this technique with moderation, especially if you use it on your girlfriend or wife).
The woman you want to make jealous will wonder who this girl is. She’ll start asking herself a whole bunch of questions. She’ll start imagining all kinds of things.
This is the kind of trick you can use to make a beautiful woman completely obsessed with you.
Let’s move on to the fifth technique…
5) Making sure she catches you looking at other women
This technique is quite fun to implement.
It consists in making sure the girl you want to make jealous see you looking at another girl (preferably a cute one).
It can be done during a conversation (you deliberately glance at this girl passing by) or while waiting for her (for instance she’s in the bathroom of the restaurant or the club and you make sure that when she comes back she catches you checking out some other girl).
As you can imagine, this will definitely trigger a feeling of jealousy in her.
She’ll realize that you could potentially be attracted to some other woman. Which will make her see you as a challenge she’ll have to fight for.
You can use this psychological trick on a woman you just met or on your girlfriend or wife.
Let’s move on to the sixth technique…
6) Complimenting one of her friends in front of her
Girls can easily get jealous of their friends.
And a simple way to provoke this feeling of jealousy is to compliment one of her friends in front of her.
Just take it easy, for several reasons:
- The girl friend of the girl you want to make jealous shouldn’t start seeing you as a potential boyfriend (or at least she shouldn’t think that you’re hitting on her and want something to happen with her, because it could make her catch feelings for you). Imagine that, out of solidarity, the girl you like decides to give up on you to leave you to her friend…
- You could jeopardize a friendship (if the girl you want to make jealous is sensitive, it could end badly with her friend)…
- And obviously, you don’t want to psychologically torture that girl you want to make jealous…
For these reasons, take it easy.
A small compliment on her friend’s clothing is enough.
You can also say something like: “You look great today”.
See also: How To Compliment A Girl’s Outfit
A variation of this technique is to speak a little too highly of her friend, for instance by saying something like, “Is Julia coming to the party? I think she’s really cool.” (kind of like the very first technique on this list).
These are the kinds of sneaky psychological tricks you can use to make a woman fall in love with you without her even realizing it.
Let’s move on to the seventh technique…
7) Asking her for a gift advice (a gift you plan to make to another girl)
It’s the birthday of a girl you might potentially be attracted to, and you want to give her a present.
You’re going to ask the girl you want to make jealous for a gift tip.
Simple as that.
The more the girl you want to make a gift to is already seen as a rivale by the girl you want to make jealous, the greatest impact this technique will have on her.
For instance, if she already caught you texting with this other girl, if she’s already wondering about her and whether you have feelings for her… she’ll obviously get mad when you ask her for a gift tip for this girl.
You can use this trick in person or over text.
Let’s now move on to the eighth technique…
8) Having lunch with another girl
This technique is similar to the third one.
It consists in making sure the girl you want to make jealous sees you having lunch with another girl (or making sure she discovers you had lunch with another girl).
I used this technique a lot when I was a student, it worked pretty well.
The girl you want to make jealous sees you spending time with another girl and starts to wonder.
She realizes that she can’t take you for granted and that she’s going to have to fight for your attention.
Quick recap
To make a girl jealous, you can:
- Speak highly of another girl
- Tell her about your pastimes with other girls
- Make sure she sees you chatting with another girl
- Text another girl in front of her
- Make sure she catches you looking at other women
- Compliment one of her friends in front of her
- Ask her for a gift advice (a gift you plan to make to another girl)
- Have lunch with other women (and make sure she sees or discovers it)
These techniques are powerful, so use them sparingly.
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